Re: Partner in life

by Guest Sun 22 Feb 2009 - 8:06

Tommygunner70 wrote:
I have no real preference. between the rolls.
We just go on how we feel like doing it.

Though being in Shibari is enough for me.
There is something to be said with having your movements restricted and letting your husband have his way with you.

Tommy has a way higher pain tolerance then me though.
I envy him for that. But I do not envy the reasons why he has such a pain tolerance.
Nor do I envy the fact that he takes pain killers like it is candy.

On a side note, S&M isn't something you just go out and do. You have to enjoy it, and you also need a good relation with the one you are doing it with. It actually takes some time getting used to before it will become pleasurable.

BTW: I hope that I am not being too bold by posting this...

by Guest Sun 22 Feb 2009 - 8:09

I think that my problem is that although I'm a hot girl, I just am to much of a Tom Boy

To be honest--very-very honest--the best girlfriend you could have is if she's a tomboy.

My girlfriend is, so...yeah.

My reasons? Here:

1. Easy to socialize with.
2. Much-much more comfortable to be around with
3. Near-similar taste/preferences in many things.
4. Not TOO clingy...and not whiny (or if they do, they usually didn't show it THAT clear)
5. Much more feminine (You might go 'wut' by this point 0_0. No, seriously. In every tomboy, there's a feminine side within that's waiting to be unleashed)

And of course, this leads to the last reason:

6. Not too feminine either (because you don't want someone who's too feminine and asking you to buy hello kitty or drag you to a clothing store almost every-end of the weekend. I prefer a girl who drags me to either the arcade or the movies. And that's what I have Very Happy

)

By the way, its good to be honest with yourself. Many guys love honesty...although don't expect them to be honest in return as not all of them are...

You know? You might have someone who set their eyes on you but you're oblivious to it. Maybe check for signs like...look at them straight in the eye or something and see some signs. d(^_^)b

by West Nile Sun 22 Feb 2009 - 9:26

Panzer IV wrote:
I think that my problem is that although I'm a hot girl, I just am to much of a Tom Boy

To be honest--very-very honest--the best girlfriend you could have is if she's a tomboy.

My girlfriend is, so...yeah.

My reasons? Here:

1. Easy to socialize with.
2. Much-much more comfortable to be around with
3. Near-similar taste/preferences in many things.
4. Not TOO clingy...and not whiny (or if they do, they usually didn't show it THAT clear)
5. Much more feminine (You might go 'wut' by this point 0_0. No, seriously. In every tomboy, there's a feminine side within that's waiting to be unleashed)

And of course, this leads to the last reason:

6. Not too feminine either (because you don't want someone who's too feminine and asking you to buy hello kitty or drag you to a clothing store almost every-end of the weekend. I prefer a girl who drags me to either the arcade or the movies. And that's what I have )

By the way, its good to be honest with yourself. Many guys love honesty...although don't expect them to be honest in return as not all of them are...

You know? You might have someone who set their eyes on you but you're oblivious to it. Maybe check for signs like...look at them straight in the eye or something and see some signs. d(^_^)b

well my taste in women lyes on how eccentric they are, the more quirks the more interesting, making a tomboy also quite an interest, besides they are easy to relate with. then again extremely girly girls interest me too $dancin\\'$

by **Triela** Sun 22 Feb 2009 - 12:04

[quote="Panzer IV"]

1. Easy to socialize with.
2. Much-much more comfortable to be around with
3. Near-similar taste/preferences in many things.
4. Not TOO clingy...and not whiny (or if they do, they usually didn't show it THAT clear)
5. Much more feminine (You might go 'wut' by this point 0_0. No, seriously. In every tomboy, there's a feminine side within that's waiting to be unleashed)

And of course, this leads to the last reason:

6. Not too feminine either (because you don't want someone who's too feminine and asking you to buy hello kitty or drag you to a clothing store almost every-end of the weekend. I prefer a girl who drags me to either the arcade or the movies. And that's what I have )

By the way, its good to be honest with yourself. Many guys love honesty...although don't expect them to be honest in return as not all of them are...

OMG Panzer that describes me perfectly!!!! @____@

by **Nachtsider** Sun 22 Feb 2009 - 12:21

In b4 Cyborg Central dating game

by tsundere9kagami2 Sun 22 Feb 2009 - 15:19

i had a girlfriend that i never talked to or even saw most of the week once.....it was lets say strange but she liked me i guess enough to #$#%#%$ with me. but it was really wierd and sometimes akward and just assbackwards.

by Cherubino Sun 22 Feb 2009 - 16:47

Panzer IV wrote:
I think that my problem is that although I'm a hot girl, I just am to much of a Tom Boy

To be honest--very-very honest--the best girlfriend you could have is if she's a tomboy.

My girlfriend is, so...yeah.

My reasons? Here:

1. Easy to socialize with.
2. Much-much more comfortable to be around with
3. Near-similar taste/preferences in many things.
4. Not TOO clingy...and not whiny (or if they do, they usually didn't show it THAT clear)
5. Much more feminine (You might go 'wut' by this point 0_0. No, seriously. In every tomboy, there's a feminine side within that's waiting to be unleashed)

And of course, this leads to the last reason:

6. Not too feminine either (because you don't want someone who's too feminine and asking you to buy hello kitty or drag you to a clothing store almost every-end of the weekend. I prefer a girl who drags me to either the arcade or the movies. And that's what I have ).

You know? You might have someone who set their eyes on you but you're oblivious to it. Maybe check for signs like...look at them straight in the eye or something and see some signs. d(^_^)b

Funny... But I don't even like any of the guys in my school so I don't bother. And I don't blame them. I don't care how I look at school more often then not. My make up smudges and shit lol. And I wear loose shirts to school to hide my fat. Maybe I should start caring... I DO need a prom date. *sigh* The only guy I wouldn't mind going with is waaay to good looking and popular to be with me... And he is one of those black guys that will only date black or hispanic.

I fit you're checklist except you forgot the part where you would want a tomboy to be insane. You would want a girl your dating to be insane right? (Even ever so slightly?)

Triela, the only problem is that you ALWAYS go to the mall! Dude's hate that place... Remember Alex and Nick?

Anyway, I think I'm too much a tomboy and too quirky. To the point where it's probably annoying. But I'm not upset about it really. Well, not to the point where I'm disheartened. I just wish honestly, there was someone I could really care about. I don't really care that I'm not dating that much. I wish there was someone to fight for and care about. *Shrug*

by Secchan Sun 22 Feb 2009 - 18:43

Well, erhm, I don't have an "opposite sex partner", but my same sex partner makes me very happy

by **Kiskaloo** Sun 22 Feb 2009 - 19:19

Secchan wrote:Well, erhm, I don't have an "opposite sex partner", but my same sex partner makes me very happy

In the end, that's all that matters in my opinion. Good

by tsundere9kagami2 Sun 22 Feb 2009 - 19:57

Secchan wrote:Well, erhm, I don't have an "opposite sex partner", but my same sex partner makes me very happy

I knew it!
You are secchan!!!!!

by Secchan Sun 22 Feb 2009 - 21:16

Hehe, yup P:

by Guest Mon 23 Feb 2009 - 9:38

My make up smudges and shit lol

Why would you need make-up when you're still in High School? I see girls in my year level wearing make-up, but they're not that great.

Again to be honest, there are girls who look better without one--and they always stood out the best out of the rest of the make-up girls as they are NOT afraid to show their true self; NOT using make-ups to cover this that and whatever they're hiding.

tomboy to be insane

I wouldn't consider she's insane but...

Considering how she could literally own me in Time Crisis 4, DDR and any racing game in the arcade is enough to freak me out a little and crush my ego...
She's all kind, sweet and understanding in school but once she goes to the arcade her personality *somehow* changed to a very-very competitive gamer -_-;

...but I'm glad otherwise Very Happy

Dude's hate that place...

...really? Then I guess I'll undergo huge cultural-shock once I move over to the US for university...

What's wrong going to the mall anyway?

...damn I should go out and start a job like 'Hitch' once I finish school :p

by West Nile Mon 23 Feb 2009 - 20:12

Panzer IV wrote:

tomboy to be insane

I wouldn't consider she's insane but...

Considering how she could literally own me in Time Crisis 4, DDR and any racing game in the arcade is enough to freak me out a little and crush my ego...
She's all kind, sweet and understanding in school but once she goes to the arcade her personality *somehow* changed to a very-very competitive gamer -_-;

...but I'm glad otherwise

well insane is fine by me, i find ax murderer psycho hot

by **Kiskaloo** Mon 23 Feb 2009 - 20:13

West Nile wrote:well insane is fine by me, i find ax murderer psycho hot

So does Mike Meyers. Wink

by SnowDream Mon 23 Feb 2009 - 20:17

West Nile wrote:

well insane is fine by me, i find ax murderer psycho hot

Mirrai Nikki fan? Razz

@Panzer IV: The male/boys do go to the mall, but only to certain shops. Mostly sport gear shops, video game shops, electronic shops, or the likes. Unless their girlfriend/wife/mother dragged them into a clothing store Razz

by West Nile Mon 23 Feb 2009 - 20:20

SnowDream wrote:
West Nile wrote:

well insane is fine by me, i find ax murderer psycho hot

Mirrai Nikki fan?

@Panzer IV: The male/boys do go to the mall, but only to certain shops. Mostly sport gear shops, video game shops, electronic shops, or the likes. Unless their girlfriend/wife/mother dragged them into a clothing store

quoted for truth, sometimes i wish i could just wear rollerscates so that i don't have to run after her when she pulls me D&G and those other clothing stores

by **Tommygunner70** Mon 23 Feb 2009 - 21:06

Nachtsider wrote:In b4 Cyborg Central dating game

Heh, Guess you and me would be the hosts rather then guests Razz

by Cherubino Mon 23 Feb 2009 - 23:41

West Nile wrote:well insane is fine by me, i find ax murderer psycho hot

Funny you should say that. Just today I got into a conversation about dating with another guy. We were discussing what people do on dates these days. One of my friends is from Pakistan so he wanted to know what she does on dates. He looked at me and asked me and I said, "Oh the usual my dear, TORTURE." He smiled and said, "So, when WILL we go on a date?" It was really funny. I have a lot of fun with him but he is gorgeous and popular and too good for me. =D

And Panzer, your GF sounds like she would get along fine with me lol.

by tsundere9kagami2 Tue 24 Feb 2009 - 0:38

Tommygunner70 wrote:
Nachtsider wrote:In b4 Cyborg Central dating game

Heh, Guess you and me would be the hosts rather then guests

OH OH i wanna be the bad end guy who writes bad end on your monitor and then shows you a picture of a nice boat
Laughing

by **Tommygunner70** Tue 24 Feb 2009 - 7:20

tsundere9kagami2 wrote:
Tommygunner70 wrote:
Nachtsider wrote:In b4 Cyborg Central dating game

Heh, Guess you and me would be the hosts rather then guests

OH OH i wanna be the bad end guy who writes bad end on your monitor and then shows you a picture of a nice boat

Ok, then I'll be the guy who sits neatly with his legs folded while a sword rests against his shoulder.

And when an bad end fuck comes along, I'll get off my ass and slice the fucker Razz

by Awinnell Tue 24 Feb 2009 - 9:49

the only time a boyfriend is happy to go to a mall with his girlfriend is when she is buying LINGERIE !! Partner in life - Page 3 21213

by **Nachtsider** Tue 24 Feb 2009 - 10:08

Or when they go shopping for stuff they're both interested in. Wink

by tsundere9kagami2 Tue 24 Feb 2009 - 10:59

Awinnell wrote:the only time a boyfriend is happy to go to a mall with his girlfriend is when she is buying LINGERIE !!

are you joking i hate doing that boring as hell

by Awinnell Tue 24 Feb 2009 - 11:16

tsundere9kagami2 wrote:
Awinnell wrote:the only time a boyfriend is happy to go to a mall with his girlfriend is when she is buying LINGERIE !!
are you joking i hate doing that boring as hell

your girlfriends obviously buying the wrong lingerie !

by tsundere9kagami2 Tue 24 Feb 2009 - 11:23

why do i care which ones she buys if theyre just gonna be off later anyway

by **Kiskaloo** Tue 24 Feb 2009 - 12:10

tsundere9kagami2 wrote:why do i care which ones she buys if theyre just gonna be off later anyway

Uh, the kid's got a point there, Val...

by Guest Tue 24 Feb 2009 - 12:30

Funny you should say that. Just today I got into
a conversation about dating with another guy. We were discussing what
people do on dates these days. One of my friends is from Pakistan so he
wanted to know what she does on dates. He looked at me and asked me and
I said, "Oh the usual my dear, TORTURE." He smiled and said, "So, when
WILL we go on a date?" It was really funny. I have a lot of fun with
him but he is gorgeous and popular and too good for me. =D

...is that hint of attempt to ask you out, I see?
no, seriously, that is a very-very subtle hint to ask you out if I were to see it 0_0

here's a cute way of saying 'wouldyoupleasegooutwithme':

Give your girl a cactus with your name and a note: Would you please take care of this for me?

...if she returns something to you the next day with a note that says 'would you please take care of this for me' then that's an OK

OH OH i wanna be the bad end guy who writes bad end on your monitor and then shows you a picture of a nice boat

Not gonna' happen~
Because I'm not the type to go 2-timing on someone. Having someone you care the most to accompany you is a 1 in a 10 chance one can obtain (and that considering the girl is right for you and not the slutty or the annoying one). Besides...

Partner in life - Page 3 Two-ti10

And Panzer, your GF sounds like she would get along fine with me lol.

I believe she can^^

the only time a boyfriend is happy to go to a mall with his girlfriend is when she is buying LINGERIE !!

She never took me out to go buy some lingerie (on purpose), but once she did went in to buy one, I decided to wait outside the shop. I mean, a girl needs respect and privacy too, deshou?

by Awinnell Tue 24 Feb 2009 - 13:07

Kiskaloo wrote:
tsundere9kagami2 wrote:why do i care which ones she buys if theyre just gonna be off later anyway

Uh, the kid's got a point there, Val...

who's val ?

by **Kiskaloo** Tue 24 Feb 2009 - 14:06

Awinnell wrote:
Kiskaloo wrote:
tsundere9kagami2 wrote:why do i care which ones she buys if theyre just gonna be off later anyway

Uh, the kid's got a point there, Val...

who's val?

It's a recurring skit from the best children comedy troupe ever - You Can't Do That On Television.

The line was uttered by Senator Lance Prevert (played by Les Lye) to his wife Valerie (played by Abby Hagyard) when one of their kids would make a sage comment. To which Val would always reply "Don't encourage the child.".

by Cherubino Tue 24 Feb 2009 - 22:36

Panzer IV wrote:...is that hint of attempt to ask you out, I see?
no, seriously, that is a very-very subtle hint to ask you out if I were to see it 0_0

here's a cute way of saying 'wouldyoupleasegooutwithme':

Give your girl a cactus with your name and a note: Would you please take care of this for me?

...if she returns something to you the next day with a note that says 'would you please take care of this for me' then that's an OK

I'm confused. You think he was hinting at something? Neither of us were... Or at least I don't think we were.

Not gonna' happen~
Because I'm not the type to go 2-timing on someone. Having someone you care the most to accompany you is a 1 in a 10 chance one can obtain (and that considering the girl is right for you and not the slutty or the annoying one).

Werd...

the only time a boyfriend is happy to go to a mall with his girlfriend is when she is buying LINGERIE !!

Yeah well, I don't buy lingerie with guys unless they're paying. But then again, I'm a tease so I wouldn't let them see me in it anyway. xD

She never took me out to go buy some lingerie (on purpose), but once she did went in to buy one, I decided to wait outside the shop. I mean, a girl needs respect and privacy too, deshou?

I agree with you. I would want my privacy when shopping for something like that. Even if a guy ends up seeing it... I like surprise. Don't you think it's boring if you wear the same thing you just bought. *shrug* And anyway, guys want me to wear the most unflattering things. What men don't get about lingerie is that some girls shouldn't wear certain types. I know I can't. Dudes tend to judge things at stores by the way they are on the hanger... Little do they know! Holier-than-thou

by SnowDream Tue 24 Feb 2009 - 23:03

What's the secret with which lingerie fits what girl? Razz

Share the knowledge and wisdom!

As well, I see Azumanga Dioh is popular here, so have another Partner in life - Page 3 21213

by **Nachtsider** Wed 25 Feb 2009 - 0:22

I know that well-endowed girls should go for corsets. They really flatter a nice bust.

by Guest Wed 25 Feb 2009 - 12:45

I agree with you. I would want my privacy when
shopping for something like that. Even if a guy ends up seeing it... I
like surprise. Don't you think it's boring if you wear the same thing
you just bought. *shrug* And anyway, guys want me to wear the most
unflattering things. What men don't get about lingerie is that some
girls shouldn't wear certain types. I know I can't. Dudes tend to judge
things at stores by the way they are on the hanger... Little do they
know!

Hey, I as a guy, still living in my last years of High School should not--and will not--care about what underwear my girlfriend, or any girl out there are wearing. What's important is the character of an individual and not what she is wearing. What they want to wear is their choice, not my business.

...unless it gets provoking then yeah...

I know that well-endowed girls should go for corsets. They really flatter a nice bust.

Isn't that a bit uh...'rude' and 'provoking' at a certain point? It kinda' links with the quote before >_>

by **Nachtsider** Wed 25 Feb 2009 - 12:47

I don't see why it should be.

by Secchan Wed 25 Feb 2009 - 20:59

I like wearing my corset. They really do flatter a nice bust Very Happy

by **Kiskaloo** Wed 25 Feb 2009 - 21:02

Secchan wrote:I like wearing my corset. They really do flatter a nice bust

$dancin\\'$ Good

by Secchan Wed 25 Feb 2009 - 21:30

Kiskaloo wrote:

$dancin\\'$

Well, it's true ;P

by tsundere9kagami2 Wed 25 Feb 2009 - 22:42

You suffocate easier tho....... Razz

by **Kiskaloo** Wed 25 Feb 2009 - 22:44

Secchan wrote:
I like wearing my corset. They really do flatter a nice bust

Kiskaloo wrote:

$dancin\\'$

Secchan wrote:
Well, it's true

Partner in life - Page 3 Thisthreadisworthlesswithoutpics

by Secchan Wed 25 Feb 2009 - 22:54

Damn, and I did have some too.
It's a pity I don't know where they are anymore.
And I doubt my girlfriend would approve P:
I don't even know if I do.

by Cherubino Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 0:29

I am a corset girl myself. I do corsets and skirts... And I wouldn't post a picture of me in a corset here... I don't like you all THAT much. Pul-Lease.

Panzer, again, you're just one hell of a guy lol.

*sigh* I actually have a problem. My friend had a crush on the same guy I did and when I found out she wanted him, I brought myself into the equation and she would say, "HE'S MINE." Now, I respect my friends and I definitely put them before myself so, I gave up the notion of me with this dude. Now, she is finished with him and isn't telling him. She is just not answering his calls and avoiding him. I don't know whether I should even talk to him anymore. Things will be so weird now.. I really feel stuck. I guess, I know in my heart, that anything that could have been between us I gave up for her sake already but now that she's through with him I feel burned...

by **Nachtsider** Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 0:41

You should have talked them into a threesome. Remember, it ain't lesbian unless you forget there's a guy involved

by Guest Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 9:10

I'm confused. You think he was hinting at something? Neither of us were... Or at least I don't think we were.

Hey, you never know Razz

How about giving him an 'extra tease' next time he do that and see how he respond? Like 'what if I say I would love to' sort-of-a-line. Boundless possibilities :p

Panzer, again, you're just one hell of a guy lol.

You're the second person to say that about me :p

The first being my girlfriend...although in a different context. ('You don't look like it but you're quite romantic, you know that?' kind of line)

You should have talked them into a threesome. Remember, it ain't lesbian unless you forget there's a guy involved

;>_>
<_<;

-_-'

Nacht-sen...sex isn't everything you know...

Here, having one before marriage could utterly ruin your future with a high chance of having it FOREVER RUINED

...unless you take the adult business (which is not a wise choice), then that's different...oh, but you won't get married that for sure.

hmm...can I say what I think Che-san? Your decision is not wrong or right; more like neutral. Well, if she isn't telling him, why not talk to him instead rather than feeling bad about it? You know, show something that you care for your friend.

Or alternatively, you could talk to your friend instead and ask her why she 'felt done' with him and reasons why so you won't repeat the same mistake--and talk her into talking to him/telling him if need be.

...and hey, don't feel bad about it. What's done is done, it can't be undone. But the good thing about us humans is how we can rebuild from the destruction we created. So, if you're still up for it...go ask him out? Although just to be safe ask your friend if its ok.

Oh, one other thing, if any guy ask you to sleep with him and using the line 'you'll do it if you love me' don't give in to it. Its stupid, and that's plainly using the guilt-factor for his benefit. So ignore him or if worse comes to, leave him. :p

Most of the time I see girls lack the integrity and the courage to do so. Manipulation is nothing but a cowardly act > Sad

by **Nachtsider** Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 9:13

Oh, Panzer, I'm finding you adorable and hilarious. 80% of what I say on this board is tongue-in-cheek. Laughing

by LoC978 Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 13:51

Partner in life - Page 3 Startrekfacepalmdeux

that whole rant on sex=marriage=THE ONLY WAY up there is what people in my circle like to call an 'unhealthy attitude with unrealistic expectations'.

by Sintendo Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 14:02

For that little Tucker Max in all of us...:

by LoC978 Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 14:21

by Guest Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 15:50

Subject: Re: Partner in life Today at 02:51

that whole rant on sex=marriage=THE ONLY WAY up there is what people in my circle like to call an 'unhealthy attitude with unrealistic expectations'. Well, different culture I suppose. Here you are most definitely NOT gonna' get married or will have difficulty finding a partner later. Another thing why I say that is not only (as being part of the male species) wrong, is how that is similarly damaging your partner not only physically, but mentally. Truth be told (and to be very honest), I have never had any sexual relationship with my girlfriend despite of being steady for 2-almost 3 years...aside from kisses and stuff :p Am I regretting it? No. Its this kind of pure relationship that usually lasts longer than that of driven by sexual desires--lust. Instead, you get to see what lies within someone's shell and dwell in much deeper than what you can bargain. You got to unmask the partner you are with and understand her true character. It showed me girl who deserve my respect, my attention, and my protection. That is what having relationship is all about. And for that, I am grateful

by LoC978 Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 16:36

Remove the kissing and 'romantic' stuff, and what you describe is friendship with a person weaker than yourself. Nothing wrong with that, I suppose... but as soon as you do wind up sleeping with her, the dynamic of the relationship will change beyond any recovery, and you will no longer have a friend... instead you'll have a wife. Seen it happen all too often.
I sincerely hope you're one of the exceptions to that rule. Good

by **Kiskaloo** Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 18:51

All you really need to do is follow the Laws of Popularity.

Partner in life - Page 3 LawOfPopularity

Provided courtesy of Minami Kana who reminds you, if you break the law it is a sin. And sinners are punished...

by SnowDream Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 20:31

Well... There isn't any evidence I have seen so far that having sex after marriage is detrimental to either the person or the relationship. However, I have seen plenty of Psychology papers reporting more than conclusive statistical evidence that having sex before the female is of the age when she is ready for sex or teen pregnancy leads to life long negative outcomes. Of course, when a female became ready for sex is different depending on the individual.

by Cherubino Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 21:16

Nacht, I think you have an obsession with threesomes... And anyway I wouldn't have a threesome with friends. I would be embarrassed to expose my body to another one of my friends.

Hey, you never know
How about giving him an 'extra tease' next time he do that and see how he respond? Like 'what if I say I would love to' sort-of-a-line. Boundless possibilities :p

I am a pretty ballzie gal but I'm not that good. I heard that a girl confessed she liked him and she was just a no one like me and after that he avoided her and became a dick. I would rather be an acquaintance for the rest of the school year then be alienated.

hmm...can I say what I think Che-san? Your decision is not wrong or right; more like neutral. Well, if she isn't telling him, why not talk to him instead rather than feeling bad about it? You know, show something that you care for your friend.

Or alternatively, you could talk to your friend instead and ask her why she 'felt done' with him and reasons why so you won't repeat the same mistake--and talk her into talking to him/telling him if need be.

...and hey, don't feel bad about it. What's done is done, it can't be undone. But the good thing about us humans is how we can rebuild from the destruction we created. So, if you're still up for it...go ask him out? Although just to be safe ask your friend if its ok.

It's not that easy. The situation is very delicate. I can talk to him but she won't let me say anything to him about them. I tried suggesting different ways to tell him instead of ignoring him. She wasn't interested in them. I kinda am getting upset. I hate when women do these things. It's so fucked up that people won't be honest and forward about their feelings. I think I will talk to her about it... *Sigh* Now I'm in a bad mood...

Truth be told (and to be very honest), I have never had any sexual relationship with my girlfriend despite of being steady for 2-almost 3 years...aside from kisses and stuff :p

Am I regretting it? No. Its this kind of pure relationship that usually lasts longer than that of driven by sexual desires--lust. Instead, you get to see what lies within someone's shell and dwell in much deeper than what you can bargain. You got to unmask the partner you are with and understand her true character. It showed me girl who deserve my respect, my attention, and my protection. That is what having relationship is all about.

Wow... Are you real?????? xD I've never met anyone as nice as you and as not pushy etc...

by **Nachtsider** Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 21:50

Cherubino wrote:Nacht, I think you have an obsession with threesomes... And anyway I wouldn't have a threesome with friends. I would be embarrassed to expose my body to another one of my friends.

I don't - my kind of sex is wild one-on-one. They're just excellent joke material, and the number of opportunities to use such jokes here is just too good to pass up.

by Cherubino Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 21:56

Nachtsider wrote:
Cherubino wrote:Nacht, I think you have an obsession with threesomes... And anyway I wouldn't have a threesome with friends. I would be embarrassed to expose my body to another one of my friends.
I don't - my kind of sex is wild one-on-one. They're just excellent joke material, and the number of opportunities to use such jokes here is just too good to pass up.

Ok a little TMI but I guess they are funny... I never really think of them in a joking way. I guess. I dunno.... I'm not in a very good mood tonight to joke about threesomes.

by **Nachtsider** Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 21:59

I'm sorry, Cherry. I'll knock it off, now. Embarassed

by Cherubino Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 22:21

Nachtsider wrote:I'm sorry, Cherry. I'll knock it off, now.

No! Don't feel bad! Don't get all upset over. I'm a moody woman. You shouldn't even consider me. lol
Really though, any other day I would joke with you too but I'm afraid that women are annoying me. I'm glad I don't have to date them...

by **Nachtsider** Thu 26 Feb 2009 - 22:28

I'll keep that in mind, Cherry. Take care.

by Guest Fri 27 Feb 2009 - 11:31

I am a pretty ballzie gal but I'm not that good.
I heard that a girl confessed she liked him and she was just a no one
like me and after that he avoided her and became a dick. I would rather
be an acquaintance for the rest of the school year then be alienated.

-_-;
Now THAT is just rude.

I don't know, maybe difference in culture or something. If a girl confess to a guy here, the response could be direct (or take extra time) and it depends really. But if its a 'no' usually the situation gets awkward...although they still talk, its just an awkward feeling to know that someone likes you although you have no feelings in return.

...kinda makes you go 'doki-doki' at most time, ne?

It's not that easy. The situation is very
delicate. I can talk to him but she won't let me say anything to him
about them. I tried suggesting different ways to tell him instead of
ignoring him. She wasn't interested in them. I kinda am getting upset.
I hate when women do these things. It's so fucked up that people won't
be honest and forward about their feelings. I think I will talk to her
about it... *Sigh* Now I'm in a bad mood...

Ooh...wow that is complicated.

And don't feel bad about! If she is not letting you to ask him about them, you can talk to the boy instead--in secret, of course. Set up a meeting somewhere like in a coffee shop or something (but not somewhere too quiet--just a precaution) and ask him. Of course, the matter needs to be kept as a secret or else all hell's break loose.

It is fucked up, but at least its not in the FUBAR range yet Very Happy

...or on the other hand, you could avoid touching their topic just to stay on the sidelines; that is, if you don't want things to change. Just be prepared that it could go for better or worse.

All you really need to do is follow the Laws of Popularity.

Uuhmm.... ^^;

...actually you should never follow/copy something from an Anime or manga as those chances of coming true are 1/100. It either pushes you to embarrassment and ridicule or to a very amusing and entertaining performance that deserves a good 'lol'.

I grew attached to her after she saved me--more like forcing me to walk out to light--from my hiki-state back in year 9-10. Don't know how long that was since.

by Cherubino Fri 27 Feb 2009 - 20:17

[quote="Panzer IV"]

-_-;
Now THAT is just rude.

I don't know, maybe difference in culture or something. If a girl confess to a guy here, the response could be direct (or take extra time) and it depends really. But if its a 'no' usually the situation gets awkward...although they still talk, its just an awkward feeling to know that someone likes you although you have no feelings in return.

...kinda makes you go 'doki-doki' at most time, ne?

Yeah. It's pretty much the same here but this guy is a little bit of a dick because he knows he's hot (which is really bad for a guy to know) and he's on a sport team and so... Everyone knows him.
Thats cute 'doki-doki' is it kinda like 'okie-dokie'? I never heard doki-doki before. I like it. It sounds cute.

Ooh...wow that is complicated.

And don't feel bad about! If she is not letting you to ask him about them, you can talk to the boy instead--in secret, of course. Set up a meeting somewhere like in a coffee shop or something (but not somewhere too quiet--just a precaution) and ask him. Of course, the matter needs to be kept as a secret or else all hell's break loose.

It is fucked up, but at least its not in the FUBAR range yet

...or on the other hand, you could avoid touching their topic just to stay on the sidelines; that is, if you don't want things to change. Just be prepared that it could go for better or worse.

I know. I think I need to stick in the sidelines. I will wait and see what happens. I love my friend like a sister so I am with her until the end. I don't feel comfortable going anywhere with this guy. Mainly because I think he knew I liked him and he reminds me of myself... When I like someone who is like me it means they are probably a bad person like me... ^.^;;

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